One of the major decisions you’ll need to make when travelling, regardless of who you’re travelling with, is where you’ll stay each night. Of course, the kind of travelling you’re doing will affect where you stay: if you’re a solo traveller on a budget who wants to meet people, a hostel dorm is the logical choice. If you’re exploring one country with friends a campervan might be a good option. And of course, you’ll probably use many different forms of accommodation within the same trip.

Couples looking for accommodation will have slightly different priorities to single travellers, or people travelling as a group of friends. However, Couchsurfing is one of the best options, for everyone really, but especially for couples.

With couchsurfing hosts in Germany.
With couchsurfing hosts in Germany.

We started couchsurfing at the start of 2010, when we headed to South America for the first time, and it, quite literally, changed our life. It is a social network for independent travellers with a rather practical twist. Couchsurfing is an interchange and rating system matching people with spare beds and couches with people who’d like to use them. But it is much more than “free” accommodation, it’s a chance at cultural interchange, a chance to get below the skin of a city, a real chance to make local friends in almost every part of the world.

While apprehensive to begin with, we have never regretted our decision to start Couchsurfing, and now recommend it to every traveller we meet. Each experience is different — as different as the hosts who take you in. We’ve had all sorts of encounters, from one night with a single mum in Hamburg, to a few days in Arequipa with a large Peruvian family who didn’t bat an eyelid at having five strangers come to stay.

So why is it so good for couples?

1. People like couples

Some people prefer to host singles, as they take up less space than two, but several couchsurfers have told us they like to host couples: being in a couple means that at least one other person thinks you’re good value. This was the case with our very first Couchsurfing experience, in Santiago, Chile, when we stayed with a couple and their young son; the mother felt more comfortable having a couple come to stay than a solo traveller.

Linda with couchsurfing hosts
You get to meet some pretty awesome people when Couchsurfing.

2. It’s safer

You’ll send several emails back and forth before you actually show up at your host’s house, and you have their profile to give you an idea of what they are like. But it’s always a risk showing up at a stranger’s place; going with someone else lessens that risk. You’ll always have someone around to help you out if something goes wrong.

3. Someone to talk to

Sometimes your host has to work and can’t spend time with you during the day, or has to go to bed early. Travelling as a couple means that you always have someone around to keep you entertained. Similarly, if one of you is exhausted, the other can spend time with your host, lessening the possibility of appearing rude.

River-side sculpture seen from the Island of Sculputures.
You always have someone to talk to

Of course, sometimes you’ll need more privacy than Couchsurfing can provide, and that’s when it’s a good idea to head to a hostel or hotel. But for meeting people, getting to know places more intimately, and sharing cultural experiences, nothing compares with Couchsurfing.

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Note: this article was first published in 2011, and was republished in 2017 with updated links.

Your thoughts on "Why Couchsurfing is perfect for couples"

  • Unfortunately just today CS announced it is for profit now, which will inevitably make it less and less perfect for anyone. It is only fair to mention the many other hospitality options including BeWelcome and Hospitality Club. For a better list see here:

    • Couchsurfing has always been a non-profit organisation to date, but they've always acted like a for-profit organisation, with big staff retreats, etc. It'll be interesting to see how things develop for them as an organisation and how that influences the people who take part. For now, in our opinion at least, it remains the best of the networks -- the most active, the most interesting.

      on August 27, 2011 at 3:04 pm Reply
  • If you don't mind, where's the link to your CouchSurfing profile?

    on November 16, 2011 at 5:40 pm Reply
    • We're at

      on November 19, 2011 at 8:59 am Reply
  • Great post, guys! Just a quickie: Would you recommend that my wife and I create a profile each to make best use of CS in order to increase our chances or will just my own, personal profile suffice? Cheers!

    on December 1, 2015 at 2:27 pm Reply
    • One profile is enough. We have a joint one that has photos of both of us, which is what I'd recommend. If you want to use your (solo) profile, just make sure to mention in your requests that there are two of you and give some personal information about yourselves.

      on December 16, 2015 at 2:33 pm Reply
  • Great article and I love CS. I have contacted so many CSers in the past to get some info about why and how they do it and I got some great feedback

    on August 6, 2016 at 3:00 pm Reply
  • Hi, I am making a profile for CS at the moment and it is for my boyfriend and I. I was wondering, Is it easier to make a profile for the both of us as we plan to sleep at the same place, obviously. Or did you guys had a separate profile and just mentioned that you're with 2?

    on October 13, 2017 at 7:34 am Reply
    • Oh never mind. I looked a little bit further and already found an answer to my question :) Thanks for the information everyone and thanks for the article. It was helpful!

      on October 13, 2017 at 7:36 am Reply
      • Great, glad to help!

        on October 13, 2017 at 9:37 pm

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